### What this PR does / why we need it?
Upgrade vllm commit to 2026.03.19.
1.Fix socket removed from StatelessProcessGroup. Upstream vLLM PR
[#36330](https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/36330) ("elastic_ep:
Fix stateless group port races") refactored StatelessProcessGroup and
removed the socket: socket.socket | None field. The socket ownership was
moved to a new create_tcp_store() helper instead of being stored as a
field on the dataclass.
2.fix `virtual_engine` parameter removed from `set_forward_context().
Upstream [V0 Deprecation] Deprecate virtual engine
[#37195](https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/37195)
### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?
NA
### How was this patch tested?
NA
- vLLM version: v0.17.0
- vLLM main:
8b6325758c
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Signed-off-by: leo-pony <nengjunma@outlook.com>