### What this PR does / why we need it?
This miscellaneous contains several small fixes:
1) fix initialization and forward bugs of DeepseekMTPLayer with
`shared_expert_dp` enabled.
2) fix a tensor shape mismatches after o_proj caused by a work-aroud
change in NPUModelRunner.
3) avoid unnecessary decline of kv_cache memory (default: 64MB) with
`use_cached_kv_cache_bytes` disabled.
4) fall back `fused_moe_state` from `MC2` to `All2All` since the padding
logic of `mc2_mask` is incompatible with input hidden_states when
`shared_expert_dp` enabled.
Once this PR is merged, users can launch disaggregated_prefill
deployments (large_ep) with `deepseek_mtp` and `shared_expert_dp` as
`v0.9.1-dev` branch. The remaining problem of kv_cache tokens decline
compared to `v0.9.1-dev` will be resolved by
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm-ascend/pull/3073.
### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?
No.
### How was this patch tested?
E2E vllm serving about deepseek_mtp with torchair graph mode and
`enable_shared_expert_dp` with eager mode. Large ep deployments are also
tested with this PR.
- vLLM version: v0.10.2
- vLLM main:
5aeb925452
---------
Signed-off-by: linfeng-yuan <1102311262@qq.com>
d01fd1d1c3