### What this PR does / why we need it?
1. Following https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/32322, use the
`memory_profiling` context manager from vllm for profiling.
2. Fix wrong non-torch memory value recorded during profiling, which is
not its peak during inference.
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**More details about point 2:**
After profling, the non-torch memory value we recorded is lower than
that in real inference. This is mainly because of the different memory
management behaviour between `torch.cuda.empty_cache()` and
`torch.npu.empty_cache()`.
With regard to `torch.cuda.empty_cache()`, it only recycle the unused
memory in pytorch memory pool (i.e., memory managed by pytorch caching
allocator), **with no affect to non-torch memory**. However, as for
`torch.npu.empty_cache()`, it has a totally different memory management
mechanism, i.e., it may call `aclrtSynchronize` and **enable Ascend
runtime to free up non-torch memory**.
Thus, the non-torch memory value we recorded after
`torch.npu.empty_cache()` is much lower than its peak during profling.
Resolution:
We record the peak non-torch memory value
(`non_torch_memory_before_empty_cache`) after profiling, but before
`torch.npu.empty_cache()`. Then, we add the diff
(`non_torch_memory_cleared_by_empty_cache =
non_torch_memory_before_empty_cache - self.non_torch_memory`) to
non-torch memory when calculating available KV cache memory, which will
lead to less KV cache memory (i.e., it's safer to avoid OOM issues).
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> [!NOTE]
> This PR needs to wait for main2main aligning to latest vllm commit
before merging.
### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?
no.
### How was this patch tested?
Before this PR, the non-torch memory we used to calculate available KV
cache memory is **0.90 G**, whereas its peak during real inference is
**1.08 G**, diff: **182.00 M**.
After this PR, we add this diff to non-torch memory after profiling and
thus make the profiling results more accurate.
- vLLM version: v0.15.0
- vLLM main:
d7e17aaacd
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Signed-off-by: shen-shanshan <467638484@qq.com>