[EPLB][Ops] Integerate grouped_matmul_swiglu_quant_weight_nz_tensor_list operator into dynamic EPLB (#4216)
### What this PR does / why we need it?
Integerate grouped_matmul_swiglu_quant_weight_nz_tensor_list into
dynamic EPLB to support list-type parameters
This PR also modify the logic of loading model in dynamic-eplb scenario.
The operator is based on this pr:
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm-ascend/pull/3804
### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?
no
### How was this patch tested?
```
vllm serve /home/weight/DeepSeek-V3.1_w8a8mix_mtp \
--max_num_seqs 8 \
--max-model-len 8192 \
--max-num-batched-tokens 16384 \
--tensor-parallel-size 8 \
--data-parallel-size 2 \
--enable-expert-parallel \
--served-model-name ds_r1 \
--enable-auto-tool-choice \
--tool-call-parser hermes \
--no-enable-prefix-caching \
--port 8999 \
--quantization "ascend" \
--gpu-memory-utilization 0.85 \
--trust-remote-code \
--compilation_config '{"cudagraph_capture_sizes":[1,2,4,8,16,32]}' \
--additional-config='{"dynamic_eplb":true, "num_iterations_eplb_update":100, "num_wait_worker_iterations":100}'
```
input&output: 2k 2k
This PR:
<img width="1318" height="695" alt="fusion"
src="https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/f8657813-0c02-42f4-8396-d99e730f48cd"
/>
Baseline:
<img width="1323" height="690" alt="baseline"
src="https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/e1323a78-af26-4523-820c-e20e5642a38e"
/>
- vLLM version: v0.11.2
- vLLM main: https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/commit/v0.11.2
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Signed-off-by: 白永斌 <baiyongbin3@h-partners.com>
Signed-off-by: 欧派果奶我还要 <845473182@qq.com>
Co-authored-by: 白永斌 <baiyongbin3@h-partners.com>
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