### What this PR does / why we need it?
As issue #5948 reported，when using cpu_offload_connector with TP=1, the
server will hang on starting, we found several bugs here to fix.
1. some crash error encountered because of code changed with vllm
version updating, some of them can be fixed as #5948, and this PR fixed
all of them.
2. hang problem described in #5948, the direct reason is that in
cpu_offload_connector, RPC client using the same client id in scheduler
and worker when tensor_parrallel_size is 1, this PR force the client id
to be different, then it is fixed.
- Why we didn't find this hang problem before?
Because we using --distributed-executor-backend mp or
tensor_parrallel_size > 1 in our test, in our old test case, the
scheduler and workers are different procceses, then client ids build by
`worker-{os.getpid()}` are not the same. But when using
tensor_parrallel_size=1, vllm will use uniproc as
distributed-executor-backend by default, the scheduler and worker will
by in the same proccess, then client ids are the same and hang.
### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?
### How was this patch tested?
- vLLM version: v0.13.0
- vLLM main:
2c24bc6996
Signed-off-by: lidenghui <lidenghui1110@gmail.com>
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