[Main2Main] Upgrade vllm commit to 0109 (#5752)

### What this PR does / why we need it?
Upgrade vllm commit to 0109 (bde38c11df0ea066a740efe9b77fff5418be45df)

1. remove `init_cached_hf_modules ` due to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/31786
2. fix spec_decode e2e test due to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29821 break
3. fix `vllm.v1.attention.backends.utils` duo to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/31891
4. fix `self.seq_lens - query_lens` on same device due to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/31773
5. skip model_runner_v2 e2e test due to `'_OpNamespace' '_C' object has
no attribute 'get_cuda_view_from_cpu_tensor'`

- vLLM version: v0.13.0
- vLLM main:
2f4e6548ef

Signed-off-by: hfadzxy <starmoon_zhang@163.com>

vllm_ascend/worker/worker.py

@@ -121,11 +121,12 @@ class NPUWorker(WorkerBase):
             self.cache_dtype = STR_DTYPE_TO_TORCH_DTYPE[
                 self.cache_config.cache_dtype]
 
-        if self.model_config.trust_remote_code:
-            # note: lazy import to avoid importing torch before initializing
-            from vllm.utils.import_utils import init_cached_hf_modules
+        if vllm_version_is('0.13.0'):
+            if self.model_config.trust_remote_code:
+                # note: lazy import to avoid importing torch before initializing
+                from vllm.utils.import_utils import init_cached_hf_modules
 
-            init_cached_hf_modules()
+                init_cached_hf_modules()
 
         self.profiler = self._init_profiler()
         if vllm_config.model_config and vllm_config.model_config.enable_sleep_mode: