[Main2Main] Upgrade vllm commit to 0109 (#5752)

### What this PR does / why we need it?
Upgrade vllm commit to 0109 (bde38c11df0ea066a740efe9b77fff5418be45df)

1. remove `init_cached_hf_modules ` due to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/31786
2. fix spec_decode e2e test due to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29821 break
3. fix `vllm.v1.attention.backends.utils` duo to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/31891
4. fix `self.seq_lens - query_lens` on same device due to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/31773
5. skip model_runner_v2 e2e test due to `'_OpNamespace' '_C' object has
no attribute 'get_cuda_view_from_cpu_tensor'`

- vLLM version: v0.13.0
- vLLM main:
2f4e6548ef

Signed-off-by: hfadzxy <starmoon_zhang@163.com>

vllm_ascend/ops/triton/mamba/causal_conv1d.py

@@ -13,7 +13,13 @@ import torch
 import torch.nn.functional as F
 import triton
 import triton.language as tl
-from vllm.attention.backends.utils import PAD_SLOT_ID
+
+from vllm_ascend.utils import vllm_version_is
+
+if vllm_version_is('0.13.0'):
+    from vllm.attention.backends.utils import PAD_SLOT_ID  # type: ignore
+else:
+    from vllm.v1.attention.backends.utils import PAD_SLOT_ID  # type: ignore
 
 
 def causal_conv1d_ref(