[Main2Main] Upgrade vllm commit to 0109 (#5752)

### What this PR does / why we need it?
Upgrade vllm commit to 0109 (bde38c11df0ea066a740efe9b77fff5418be45df)

1. remove `init_cached_hf_modules ` due to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/31786
2. fix spec_decode e2e test due to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29821 break
3. fix `vllm.v1.attention.backends.utils` duo to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/31891
4. fix `self.seq_lens - query_lens` on same device due to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/31773
5. skip model_runner_v2 e2e test due to `'_OpNamespace' '_C' object has
no attribute 'get_cuda_view_from_cpu_tensor'`

- vLLM version: v0.13.0
- vLLM main:
2f4e6548ef

Signed-off-by: hfadzxy <starmoon_zhang@163.com>

tests/ut/ops/test_vocab_parallel_embedding.py

@@ -208,6 +208,15 @@ class TestCustomVocabParallelEmbedding(unittest.TestCase):
 class TestAscendLogitsProcessor(unittest.TestCase):
 
     def setUp(self):
+        self.mock_vllm_config = MagicMock()
+        self.mock_vllm_config.compilation_config.custom_ops = ["all"]
+
+        from vllm.config.vllm import set_current_vllm_config
+        set_current_vllm_config(self.mock_vllm_config)
+
+        self.config_patch = patch("vllm.config.vllm.get_current_vllm_config",
+                                  return_value=self.mock_vllm_config)
+        self.config_patch.start()
         self.vocab_size = 50
         self.num_embeddings = 50
         self.embedding_dim = 10