[Main2Main] Upgrade vllm commit to 0109 (#5752)

### What this PR does / why we need it?
Upgrade vllm commit to 0109 (bde38c11df0ea066a740efe9b77fff5418be45df)

1. remove `init_cached_hf_modules ` due to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/31786
2. fix spec_decode e2e test due to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29821 break
3. fix `vllm.v1.attention.backends.utils` duo to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/31891
4. fix `self.seq_lens - query_lens` on same device due to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/31773
5. skip model_runner_v2 e2e test due to `'_OpNamespace' '_C' object has
no attribute 'get_cuda_view_from_cpu_tensor'`

- vLLM version: v0.13.0
- vLLM main:
2f4e6548ef

Signed-off-by: hfadzxy <starmoon_zhang@163.com>

tests/ut/ops/test_token_dispatcher.py

@@ -29,6 +29,23 @@ from vllm_ascend.ops.fused_moe.token_dispatcher import (  # isort: skip
 class TestTokenDispatcherWithMC2(TestBase):
 
     def setUp(self):
+        self.config_patcher = patch(
+            'vllm_ascend.ops.fused_moe.token_dispatcher.get_current_vllm_config'
+        )
+        self.mock_get_config = self.config_patcher.start()
+
+        mock_config = MagicMock()
+
+        mock_config.scheduler_config.max_num_seqs = 256
+        mock_config.scheduler_config.decode_max_num_seqs = 256
+
+        mock_config.compilation_config.custom_ops = ["all"]
+
+        mock_config.speculative_config = None
+
+        mock_config.parallel_config.tensor_parallel_size = 1
+
+        self.mock_get_config.return_value = mock_config
         self.mc2_group = MagicMock()
         self.mc2_group.device_group.return_value._get_backend.return_value.get_hccl_comm_name.return_value = "hccl_123"
         self.mc2_group.rank_in_group = 0