[Main2Main] Upgrade vllm commit to 0109 (#5752)

### What this PR does / why we need it?
Upgrade vllm commit to 0109 (bde38c11df0ea066a740efe9b77fff5418be45df)

1. remove `init_cached_hf_modules ` due to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/31786
2. fix spec_decode e2e test due to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29821 break
3. fix `vllm.v1.attention.backends.utils` duo to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/31891
4. fix `self.seq_lens - query_lens` on same device due to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/31773
5. skip model_runner_v2 e2e test due to `'_OpNamespace' '_C' object has
no attribute 'get_cuda_view_from_cpu_tensor'`

- vLLM version: v0.13.0
- vLLM main:
2f4e6548ef

Signed-off-by: hfadzxy <starmoon_zhang@163.com>

tests/ut/attention/test_sfa_v1.py

@@ -12,6 +12,7 @@ if 'torch_npu._inductor' not in sys.modules:
 from vllm_ascend.attention.sfa_v1 import (AscendSFABackend, AscendSFAImpl,
                                           AscendSFAMetadata,
                                           AscendSFAMetadataBuilder)
+from vllm_ascend.utils import enable_dsa_cp
 
 
 class TestAscendSFABackend(TestBase):
@@ -83,6 +84,27 @@ class TestAscendSFAMetadata(TestBase):
 
 class TestAscendSFAMetadataBuilder(TestBase):
 
+    def setUp(self):
+        self.mock_cfg = MagicMock()
+
+        self.mock_cfg.parallel_config = MagicMock()
+        self.mock_cfg.parallel_config.tensor_parallel_size = 1
+        self.mock_cfg.parallel_config.prefill_context_parallel_size = 1
+        self.mock_cfg.parallel_config.decode_context_parallel_size = 1
+
+        self.mock_cfg.compilation_config = MagicMock()
+        self.mock_cfg.compilation_config.pass_config = MagicMock()
+        self.mock_cfg.compilation_config.pass_config.enable_sp = False
+
+        self.mock_cfg.speculative_config.num_speculative_tokens = 0
+
+        self.patcher = patch("vllm.config.get_current_vllm_config",
+                             return_value=self.mock_cfg)
+        self.patcher.start()
+
+        if hasattr(enable_dsa_cp, "cache_clear"):
+            enable_dsa_cp.cache_clear()
+
     def test_ascend_sfa_metadata_builder_default(self):
         kv_cache_spec = MagicMock()
         layer_names = ["layer1", "layer2"]