[Main2Main] Upgrade vllm commit to 0109 (#5752)

### What this PR does / why we need it?
Upgrade vllm commit to 0109 (bde38c11df0ea066a740efe9b77fff5418be45df)

1. remove `init_cached_hf_modules ` due to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/31786
2. fix spec_decode e2e test due to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29821 break
3. fix `vllm.v1.attention.backends.utils` duo to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/31891
4. fix `self.seq_lens - query_lens` on same device due to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/31773
5. skip model_runner_v2 e2e test due to `'_OpNamespace' '_C' object has
no attribute 'get_cuda_view_from_cpu_tensor'`

- vLLM version: v0.13.0
- vLLM main:
2f4e6548ef

Signed-off-by: hfadzxy <starmoon_zhang@163.com>

tests/ut/attention/test_attention_cp.py

@@ -33,6 +33,11 @@ class TestAscendAttentionCPImpl(TestBase):
         self.layer_no_quant.layer_name = "test_layer"
         self.layer_no_quant._k_scale_float = 1.0
         self.layer_no_quant._v_scale_float = 1.0
+        self.mock_vllm_config = MagicMock()
+        self.config_patcher = patch(
+            'vllm_ascend.attention.attention_v1.get_current_vllm_config',
+            return_value=self.mock_vllm_config)
+        self.config_patcher.start()
 
         self.impl = AscendAttentionCPImpl(
             num_heads=8,