[Main2Main] Upgrade vllm commit to 0109 (#5752)

### What this PR does / why we need it?
Upgrade vllm commit to 0109 (bde38c11df0ea066a740efe9b77fff5418be45df)

1. remove `init_cached_hf_modules ` due to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/31786
2. fix spec_decode e2e test due to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29821 break
3. fix `vllm.v1.attention.backends.utils` duo to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/31891
4. fix `self.seq_lens - query_lens` on same device due to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/31773
5. skip model_runner_v2 e2e test due to `'_OpNamespace' '_C' object has
no attribute 'get_cuda_view_from_cpu_tensor'`

- vLLM version: v0.13.0
- vLLM main:
2f4e6548ef

Signed-off-by: hfadzxy <starmoon_zhang@163.com>

.github/workflows/pr_test_light.yaml

@@ -41,7 +41,7 @@ jobs:
   lint:
     uses: ./.github/workflows/_pre_commit.yml
     with:
-      vllm: 2f4e6548efec402b913ffddc8726230d9311948d
+      vllm: bde38c11df0ea066a740efe9b77fff5418be45df
   changes:
     runs-on: linux-aarch64-a2-0
     outputs:
@@ -81,7 +81,7 @@ jobs:
     if: ${{ needs.lint.result == 'success' && (needs.changes.outputs.e2e_tracker == 'true' || needs.changes.outputs.ut_tracker == 'true') }}
     strategy:
       matrix:
-        vllm_version: [2f4e6548efec402b913ffddc8726230d9311948d, v0.13.0]
+        vllm_version: [bde38c11df0ea066a740efe9b77fff5418be45df, v0.13.0]
     uses: ./.github/workflows/_unit_test.yaml
     with:
       vllm: ${{ matrix.vllm_version }}
@@ -93,7 +93,7 @@ jobs:
     name: e2e-light
     strategy:
       matrix:
-        vllm_version: [2f4e6548efec402b913ffddc8726230d9311948d, v0.13.0]
+        vllm_version: [bde38c11df0ea066a740efe9b77fff5418be45df, v0.13.0]
     # Note (yikun): If CI resource are limited we can split job into two chain jobs
     needs: [lint, changes]
     # only trigger e2e test after lint passed and the change is e2e related with pull request.