[feat][spec decode]Unified draft parallel (#6766)

### What this PR does / why we need it?
Implement a unified parallelized speculative decoding in VLLM
Ascend，which can simultaneously support parallel speculative inference
schemes such as Pard, P-Eagle, etc. refer to
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm-ascend/pull/6565 and
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm-ascend/pull/4078

### How was this patch tested?

run with parallel drafting script:
export target=/model/Llama-3.1-8B-Instruct
export draft=/model/PARD-Llama-3.2-1B
export CUDA_VISIBLE_DEVICES=6
export ASCEND_RT_VISIBLE_DEVICES=6
vllm serve $target \
  --tensor-parallel-size 1 \
  --max-model-len 4096 \
  --no-enable-prefix-caching \
  --port 8811 \
--speculative-config '{"model": "/model/PARD-Llama-3.2-1B", "method":
"draft_model", "num_speculative_tokens": 8, "parallel_drafting": true}'

base script:
export target=/model/Llama-3.1-8B-Instruct
export draft=/model/PARD-Llama-3.2-1B
export CUDA_VISIBLE_DEVICES=6
export ASCEND_RT_VISIBLE_DEVICES=6
vllm serve $target \
  --tensor-parallel-size 1 \
  --max-model-len 4096 \
  --no-enable-prefix-caching \
  --port 8811

benchmark script:
MAX_CONCURRENCY=1
NUM_PROMPTS=80
vllm bench serve --port 8811 \
    --temperature 0 \
    --model /model/Llama-3.1-8B-Instruct \
    --backend openai-chat \
    --endpoint /v1/chat/completions \
    --dataset-name hf \
    --dataset-path philschmid/mt-bench \
    --num-prompts ${NUM_PROMPTS} \
    --max-concurrency ${MAX_CONCURRENCY} \
    --seed 1234

test results :
base(without spec decode): TTFT 79.46ms TPOT 26.99ms
output_tokens_throughput 36.75 tok/s
this pr(with parallel drafting): TTFT 72.24ms TPOT 13.45ms
output_tokens_throughput 72.98 tok/s
per-position acceptance(from position 0 to 7):
79.48%、56.93%、40%、27.90%、19.79%、14.25%、10.57%、7.61%.

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run on qwen3 model script ：
export target=/model/Qwen3-1.7B
export draft=/model/PARD-Qwen3-0.6B
export CUDA_VISIBLE_DEVICES=1
export ASCEND_RT_VISIBLE_DEVICES=1

vllm serve $target \
  --tensor-parallel-size 1 \
  --max-model-len 4096 \
  --no-enable-prefix-caching \
  --port 8811 \
--speculative-config '{"model": "/model/PARD-Qwen3-0.6B", "method":
"draft_model", "num_speculative_tokens": 8, "parallel_drafting": true}'

cc  @NickJudyHvv
- vLLM version: v0.15.0
- vLLM main:
9562912cea

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Signed-off-by: 01267596 <xiongkai123@cmbchina.com>
Signed-off-by: kx <1670186653@qq.com>
Signed-off-by: HF-001 <1670186653@qq.com>
Co-authored-by: 01267596 <xiongkai123@cmbchina.com>

vllm_ascend/ops/triton/spec_decode/utils.py

@@ -24,6 +24,7 @@ def prepare_inputs_padded_kernel(
     valid_sampled_tokens_count_ptr,  # [num_reqs]
     query_start_loc_gpu_ptr,  # [num_reqs + 1]
     token_indices_to_sample_ptr,  # [num_reqs] (output)
+    num_rejected_tokens_gpu_ptr,
     num_reqs,  # tl.int32
     BLOCK_SIZE: tl.constexpr,
 ):
@@ -61,3 +62,4 @@ def prepare_inputs_padded_kernel(
 
         index_to_sample = q_last_tok_idx - num_rejected
         tl.store(token_indices_to_sample_ptr + offsets, index_to_sample, mask=mask)
+        tl.store(num_rejected_tokens_gpu_ptr + offsets, num_rejected, mask=mask)