[Main2Main] Upgrade vLLM to 0303 (#6944)

### What this PR does / why we need it?
break:
- https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/34102 
Disable_full param replaced with valid_modes/invalid_modes API
- https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/35503
Now must return float compilation_time
- https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/35564
New sequence_lengths param added
- https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/33807
A check was performed (if runner_backend != "auto")
- https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/34861
`BaseDeviceCommunicator` now accesses PyTorch's internal `pg_map` to
check process group state
- https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/35274

**Important change:**
- https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/28672

`matcher_utils` directly accesses `torch.ops._C.*` during the import
phase. In the Ascend environment, some unregistered ops trigger
`AttributeError`, causing e2e initialization failure.

https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm-ascend/actions/runs/22607260487/job/65502047131#step:10:2323

https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/blob/main/vllm/compilation/passes/fusion/matcher_utils.py#L29

This PR adds temporary compatibility placeholders (rms_norm,
fused_add_rms_norm, rotate_embedding, static/dynamic fp8 quant,
silu_and_mul) to
`vllm_ascend/patch/platform/patch_fusion_matcher_compat_ops.py` to
ensure no crashes during the import phase. Upstream repairs will be
considered later.

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?

### How was this patch tested?

- vLLM version: v0.16.0
- vLLM main:
15d76f74e2

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Signed-off-by: MrZ20 <2609716663@qq.com>
Signed-off-by: gcanlin <canlinguosdu@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Meihan-chen <jcccx.cmh@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Claude Code <noreply@anthropic.com>
Co-authored-by: gcanlin <canlinguosdu@gmail.com>

vllm_ascend/worker/model_runner_v1.py

@@ -120,6 +120,7 @@ from vllm_ascend.utils import (
     is_moe_model,
     lmhead_tp_enable,
     set_weight_prefetch_method,
+    vllm_version_is,
 )
 from vllm_ascend.worker.npu_input_batch import NPUInputBatch
 from vllm_ascend.worker.pcp_utils import PCPManager
@@ -1826,16 +1827,26 @@ class NPUModelRunner(GPUModelRunner):
         has_lora = len(self.input_batch.lora_id_to_lora_request) > 0 if force_has_lora is None else force_has_lora
 
         # ruff: noqa: E731
-        dispatch_cudagraph = (
-            lambda num_tokens, disable_full: self.cudagraph_dispatcher.dispatch(
-                num_tokens=num_tokens,
-                has_lora=has_lora,
-                uniform_decode=uniform_decode,
-                disable_full=disable_full,
-            )
-            if not force_eager
-            else (CUDAGraphMode.NONE, BatchDescriptor(num_tokens_padded))
-        )
+        def dispatch_cudagraph(num_tokens, disable_full=False, valid_modes=None):
+            if force_eager:
+                return (CUDAGraphMode.NONE, BatchDescriptor(num_tokens_padded))
+
+            if vllm_version_is("0.16.0"):
+                return self.cudagraph_dispatcher.dispatch(
+                    num_tokens=num_tokens,
+                    has_lora=has_lora,
+                    uniform_decode=uniform_decode,
+                    disable_full=disable_full,
+                )
+            else:
+                return self.cudagraph_dispatcher.dispatch(
+                    num_tokens=num_tokens,
+                    has_lora=has_lora,
+                    uniform_decode=uniform_decode,
+                    valid_modes=valid_modes,
+                    invalid_modes={CUDAGraphMode.FULL} if disable_full else None,
+                )
+
         cudagraph_mode, batch_descriptor = dispatch_cudagraph(num_tokens_padded, use_cascade_attn or has_encoder_output)
         num_tokens_padded = batch_descriptor.num_tokens
         if enable_sp(self.vllm_config):
@@ -1856,10 +1867,16 @@ class NPUModelRunner(GPUModelRunner):
                 dp_rank = self.parallel_config.data_parallel_rank
                 num_tokens_padded = int(num_tokens_across_dp[dp_rank].item())
                 # Re-dispatch with DP padding
-                cudagraph_mode, batch_descriptor = dispatch_cudagraph(
-                    num_tokens_padded,
-                    disable_full=synced_cudagraph_mode <= CUDAGraphMode.PIECEWISE.value,
-                )
+                if vllm_version_is("0.16.0"):
+                    cudagraph_mode, batch_descriptor = dispatch_cudagraph(
+                        num_tokens_padded,
+                        disable_full=synced_cudagraph_mode <= CUDAGraphMode.PIECEWISE.value,
+                    )
+                else:
+                    cudagraph_mode, batch_descriptor = dispatch_cudagraph(
+                        num_tokens_padded,
+                        valid_modes={CUDAGraphMode(synced_cudagraph_mode)},
+                    )
                 # Assert to make sure the agreed upon token count is correct otherwise
                 # num_tokens_across_dp will no-longer be valid
                 assert batch_descriptor.num_tokens == num_tokens_padded