Upgrade vllm commit hash to 1216 (#5053)

### What this PR does / why we need it?
Upstream vLLM PR #30212 https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/30212
refactored the attention backend selection interface, This PR adapts
vllm-ascend's get_attn_backend_cls to align with the new upstream
standard, ensuring compatibility and reducing maintenance overhead.
### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?

### How was this patch tested?

co-author:[leo-pony][nengjunma@outlook.com](mailto:nengjunma@outlook.com)
- vLLM version: v0.12.0
- vLLM main:
ad32e3e19c

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Signed-off-by: zxwang <1476209578@qq.com>
Signed-off-by: leo-pony <nengjunma@outlook.com>
Co-authored-by: leo-pony <nengjunma@outlook.com>

.github/workflows/pr_test_full.yaml

@@ -74,7 +74,7 @@ jobs:
     name: e2e-full
     strategy:
       matrix:
-        vllm_version: [4429d934de3c5cc327b0d7aec8e473aeba38db90, v0.12.0]
+        vllm_version: [releases/v0.13.0, v0.12.0]
     needs: [changes]
     if: ${{ needs.changes.outputs.e2e_tracker == 'true' }}
     uses: ./.github/workflows/_e2e_test.yaml

.github/workflows/pr_test_light.yaml

@@ -42,7 +42,7 @@ jobs:
   lint:
     uses: ./.github/workflows/_pre_commit.yml
     with:
-      vllm: 4429d934de3c5cc327b0d7aec8e473aeba38db90
+      vllm: releases/v0.13.0
   changes:
     runs-on: linux-aarch64-a2-0
     outputs:
@@ -90,7 +90,7 @@ jobs:
         SOC_VERSION: ascend910b1
     strategy:
       matrix:
-        vllm_version: [4429d934de3c5cc327b0d7aec8e473aeba38db90, v0.12.0]
+        vllm_version: [releases/v0.13.0, v0.12.0]
 
     steps:
       - name: Free up disk space
@@ -154,7 +154,7 @@ jobs:
     name: e2e-light
     strategy:
       matrix:
-        vllm_version: [4429d934de3c5cc327b0d7aec8e473aeba38db90, v0.12.0]
+        vllm_version: [releases/v0.13.0, v0.12.0]
     # Note (yikun): If CI resource are limited we can split job into two chain jobs
     needs: [lint, changes]
     # only trigger e2e test after lint passed and the change is e2e related with pull request.