[Bugfix] Follow vLLM Qwen-Moe/VL and KV Connector change to fix broken CI (#2181)

### What this PR does / why we need it?
This pr fix broken CI:
1. Fix the
ee2eb6ecd8
changes, in this commit, they fused the gate and up projections in the
vision MLP, This can improve performance by reducing one matrix
multiplication. so, this pr do the following things:
- Specify that the two linear layers are fused as `mlp.gate_up_proj`
when loading the weights.
    - Use a SiluAndMul activation function.
2. Fix
aefeea0fde,
Update ModelRunnerOutput parameters to adapt to its changes
3. Fix
[vllm-commit](https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/20815/files#diff-3ffb829a39ab2b3e4706aa28f5e476815f36c3a87b98d6a66514ebedc8f3ffb4R354-R356),
fix qwen moe
### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?

### How was this patch tested?


- vLLM version: v0.10.0
- vLLM main:
fed5849d3f

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Signed-off-by: wangli <wangli858794774@gmail.com>

vllm_ascend/worker/worker_v1.py

@@ -209,12 +209,27 @@ class NPUWorker(WorkerBase):
             if not has_kv_transfer_group():
                 return None
 
-            new_output = EMPTY_MODEL_RUNNER_OUTPUT
-            if output.finished_sending or output.finished_recving:
-                new_output = copy.copy(new_output)
-                new_output.finished_sending = output.finished_sending
-                new_output.finished_recving = output.finished_recving
-            output = new_output
+            is_legacy = vllm_version_is("0.10.0")
+
+            if is_legacy:
+                finished_sending = output.finished_sending
+                finished_recving = output.finished_recving
+            else:
+                kv_connector_output = output.kv_connector_output
+                finished_sending = kv_connector_output.finished_sending
+                finished_recving = kv_connector_output.finished_recving
+
+            if not finished_sending and not finished_recving:
+                return EMPTY_MODEL_RUNNER_OUTPUT
+
+            new_output = copy.copy(EMPTY_MODEL_RUNNER_OUTPUT)
+
+            if is_legacy:
+                new_output.finished_sending = finished_sending
+                new_output.finished_recving = finished_recving
+            else:
+                new_output.kv_connector_output = kv_connector_output
+            return new_output
 
         assert isinstance(output, ModelRunnerOutput)
         return output