[feature] Add Custom Op grouped_matmul_swiglu_quant (#4431)

This PR introduces the `EXEC_NPU_CMD` macro, serving as an adapter layer
to simplify the invocation of `aclnn` operators on Ascend NPUs.

**Key Changes:**
* **Adapter Layer:** Added `EXEC_NPU_CMD` macro and related dependencies
to standardize `aclnn` calls.
* **Operator Support:** Integrated `grouped_matmul_swiglu_quant` as a
reference implementation to demonstrate the usage of the new macro.

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- vLLM version: v0.11.2

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Signed-off-by: SlightwindSec <slightwindsec@gmail.com>

.github/workflows/release_whl.yml

@@ -98,6 +98,7 @@ jobs:
           --exclude libc_sec.so \
           --exclude "libascend*.so" \
           --exclude "libtorch*.so" \
+          --exclude "libopapi.so" \
           --exclude "liberror_manager.so"
         done
         rm -f dist/*.whl