Main2main upgrade vllm commit to 03 19 17:00 (#7478)

### What this PR does / why we need it?
Upgrade vllm commit to 2026.03.19.

1.Fix socket removed from StatelessProcessGroup. Upstream vLLM PR
[#36330](https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/36330) ("elastic_ep:
Fix stateless group port races") refactored StatelessProcessGroup and
removed the socket: socket.socket | None field. The socket ownership was
moved to a new create_tcp_store() helper instead of being stored as a
field on the dataclass.

2.fix `virtual_engine` parameter removed from `set_forward_context().
Upstream [V0 Deprecation] Deprecate virtual engine
[#37195](https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/37195)

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?
NA

### How was this patch tested?
NA

- vLLM version: v0.17.0
- vLLM main:
8b6325758c

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Signed-off-by: leo-pony <nengjunma@outlook.com>

vllm_ascend/ascend_forward_context.py

@@ -19,6 +19,7 @@ from vllm_ascend.utils import (
     is_drafter_moe_model,
     is_moe_model,
     speculative_enable_dispatch_gmm_combine_decode,
+    vllm_version_is,
 )
 
 
@@ -53,13 +54,14 @@ def set_ascend_forward_context(
     forward_context_kwargs = {
         "attn_metadata": attn_metadata,
         "vllm_config": vllm_config,
-        "virtual_engine": virtual_engine,
         "num_tokens": num_tokens,
         "num_tokens_across_dp": num_tokens_across_dp,
         "cudagraph_runtime_mode": aclgraph_runtime_mode,
         "batch_descriptor": batch_descriptor,
         "skip_compiled": skip_compiled,
     }
+    if vllm_version_is("0.18.0"):
+        forward_context_kwargs["virtual_engine"] = virtual_engine
 
     with set_forward_context(**forward_context_kwargs):
         forward_context = get_forward_context()