[Misc] Upgrade vllm hash to 12_14 (#5000)

### What this PR does / why we need it?

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?
1. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/27938
2. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/27145
pooling models now supports chunked prefill and prefix caching,
3. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/30181
define the CPU fields in the field config where they really belong.
4. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/28168
define the CPU fields in the field config where they really belong.
5. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/30201
some moudle rename
6. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29067
fusedmoe moudle refactor
7. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29066
fusedmoe moudle refactor
8. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29624
### How was this patch tested?

- vLLM version: v0.12.0
- vLLM main:
ad32e3e19c

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Signed-off-by: wangli <wangli858794774@gmail.com>

vllm_ascend/patch/platform/patch_ec_connector.py

@@ -1,16 +1,15 @@
-import vllm.distributed.ec_transfer.ec_connector.shared_storage_connector
+import vllm.distributed.ec_transfer.ec_connector.example_connector
 from safetensors.torch import load_file
-from vllm.distributed.ec_transfer.ec_connector.base import ECConnectorMetadata
-from vllm.distributed.ec_transfer.ec_connector.shared_storage_connector import (
-    ECSharedStorageConnector, ECSharedStorageConnectorMetadata)
+from vllm.distributed.ec_transfer.ec_connector.example_connector import (
+    ECConnectorMetadata, ECExampleConnector)
 from vllm.logger import logger
 
 
-class AscendECSharedStorageConnector(ECSharedStorageConnector):
+class AscendECExampleConnector(ECExampleConnector):
 
     def start_load_caches(self, encoder_cache, **kwargs) -> None:
         metadata: ECConnectorMetadata = self._get_connector_metadata()
-        assert isinstance(metadata, ECSharedStorageConnectorMetadata)
+        assert isinstance(metadata, ECConnectorMetadata)
         assert encoder_cache is not None
         if metadata is None:
             logger.warning((
@@ -29,4 +28,4 @@ class AscendECSharedStorageConnector(ECSharedStorageConnector):
                          mm_data.mm_hash)
 
 
-vllm.distributed.ec_transfer.ec_connector.shared_storage_connector.ECSharedStorageConnector = AscendECSharedStorageConnector
+vllm.distributed.ec_transfer.ec_connector.example_connector.ECExampleConnector = AscendECExampleConnector