[Misc] Upgrade vllm hash to 12_14 (#5000)

### What this PR does / why we need it?

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?
1. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/27938
2. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/27145
pooling models now supports chunked prefill and prefix caching,
3. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/30181
define the CPU fields in the field config where they really belong.
4. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/28168
define the CPU fields in the field config where they really belong.
5. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/30201
some moudle rename
6. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29067
fusedmoe moudle refactor
7. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29066
fusedmoe moudle refactor
8. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29624
### How was this patch tested?

- vLLM version: v0.12.0
- vLLM main:
ad32e3e19c

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Signed-off-by: wangli <wangli858794774@gmail.com>

docs/source/community/versioning_policy.md

@@ -45,7 +45,7 @@ The table below is the release compatibility matrix for vLLM Ascend release.
 For main branch of vLLM Ascend, we usually make it compatible with the latest vLLM release and a newer commit hash of vLLM. Please note that this table is usually updated. Please check it regularly.
 | vLLM Ascend | vLLM         | Python           | Stable CANN | PyTorch/torch_npu  |
 |-------------|--------------|------------------|-------------|--------------------|
-|     main    | ad32e3e19ccf0526cb6744a5fed09a138a5fb2f9,  v0.12.0 tag | >= 3.10, < 3.12   | 8.3.RC2 | 2.8.0 / 2.8.0 |
+|     main    | 97f2f160fda2805f9149b0e44da76b5d3b1f7c7e,  v0.12.0 tag | >= 3.10, < 3.12   | 8.3.RC2 | 2.8.0 / 2.8.0 |
 
 ## Release cadence