[Misc] Upgrade vllm hash to 12_14 (#5000)

### What this PR does / why we need it?

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?
1. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/27938
2. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/27145
pooling models now supports chunked prefill and prefix caching,
3. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/30181
define the CPU fields in the field config where they really belong.
4. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/28168
define the CPU fields in the field config where they really belong.
5. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/30201
some moudle rename
6. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29067
fusedmoe moudle refactor
7. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29066
fusedmoe moudle refactor
8. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29624
### How was this patch tested?

- vLLM version: v0.12.0
- vLLM main:
ad32e3e19c

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Signed-off-by: wangli <wangli858794774@gmail.com>

.github/workflows/pr_test_light.yaml

@@ -42,7 +42,7 @@ jobs:
   lint:
     uses: ./.github/workflows/_pre_commit.yml
     with:
-      vllm: ad32e3e19ccf0526cb6744a5fed09a138a5fb2f9
+      vllm: 97f2f160fda2805f9149b0e44da76b5d3b1f7c7e
   changes:
     runs-on: linux-aarch64-a2-0
     outputs:
@@ -90,7 +90,7 @@ jobs:
         SOC_VERSION: ascend910b1
     strategy:
       matrix:
-        vllm_version: [ad32e3e19ccf0526cb6744a5fed09a138a5fb2f9, v0.12.0]
+        vllm_version: [97f2f160fda2805f9149b0e44da76b5d3b1f7c7e, v0.12.0]
 
     steps:
       - name: Free up disk space
@@ -154,7 +154,7 @@ jobs:
     name: e2e-light
     strategy:
       matrix:
-        vllm_version: [ad32e3e19ccf0526cb6744a5fed09a138a5fb2f9, v0.12.0]
+        vllm_version: [97f2f160fda2805f9149b0e44da76b5d3b1f7c7e, v0.12.0]
     # Note (yikun): If CI resource are limited we can split job into two chain jobs
     needs: [lint, changes]
     # only trigger e2e test after lint passed and the change is e2e related with pull request.