[Misc] Upgrade vllm hash to 12_14 (#5000)

### What this PR does / why we need it?

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?
1. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/27938
2. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/27145
pooling models now supports chunked prefill and prefix caching,
3. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/30181
define the CPU fields in the field config where they really belong.
4. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/28168
define the CPU fields in the field config where they really belong.
5. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/30201
some moudle rename
6. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29067
fusedmoe moudle refactor
7. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29066
fusedmoe moudle refactor
8. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29624
### How was this patch tested?

- vLLM version: v0.12.0
- vLLM main:
ad32e3e19c

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Signed-off-by: wangli <wangli858794774@gmail.com>

.github/workflows/pr_test_full.yaml

@@ -74,7 +74,7 @@ jobs:
     name: e2e-full
     strategy:
       matrix:
-        vllm_version: [ad32e3e19ccf0526cb6744a5fed09a138a5fb2f9, v0.12.0]
+        vllm_version: [97f2f160fda2805f9149b0e44da76b5d3b1f7c7e, v0.12.0]
     needs: [changes]
     if: ${{ needs.changes.outputs.e2e_tracker == 'true' }}
     uses: ./.github/workflows/_e2e_test.yaml