Main2main upgrade to vllm 0317 afternoon (#7409)

### What this PR does / why we need it?

1.fix "TypeError: get_attn_backend() remove variable": [Refactor
`check_and_update_config`](https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/35122)

2.fix [Rename `compile_ranges_split_points` to
`compile_ranges_endpoints`](https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/36027)

3.fix "RuntimeError: device_allocator not a DeviceAllocator":[Replace
memory related torch.cuda
APIs"](https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/37031)

4.fix [Support multiple KV groups in OffloadingSpec
](https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/36610) removed
self.offloaded_block_size and changed self.gpu_block_size from a scalar
to a tuple of per-group block sizes, adding block_size_factor.

5.fix [Consolidate
SupportsEagle](https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/36063) renamed
get_eagle3_aux_hidden_state_layers() to
get_eagle3_default_aux_hidden_state_layers() and added a
supports_eagle3() guard before calling it.

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?
NA
### How was this patch tested?
E2E


- vLLM version: v0.17.0
- vLLM main:
8a680463fa

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Signed-off-by: leo-pony <nengjunma@outlook.com>
Co-authored-by: Claude Code <noreply@anthropic.com>

.github/workflows/pr_test_full.yaml

@@ -75,7 +75,7 @@ jobs:
     name: e2e-full
     strategy:
       matrix:
-        vllm_version: [4497431df654e46fb1fb5e64bf8611e762ae5d87, v0.17.0]
+        vllm_version: [8a680463fab3bc9e6760417cd5c0a6aa58283065, v0.17.0]
     needs: [changes]
     if: ${{ needs.changes.outputs.e2e_tracker == 'true' || needs.changes.outputs.e2e_tracker == true }}
     uses: ./.github/workflows/_e2e_test.yaml