[BugFix]Fix eplb problems when using dynamic eplb. (#3364)

### What this PR does / why we need it?
When using dynamic eplb,it will be blocking by nz tensor.We fix these
prolems by clone src tensor and recv tensor.

### Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

### How was this patch tested?
Qwen3_moe in A3.

- vLLM version: v0.11.0rc3
- vLLM main: https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/commit/v0.11.0

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Signed-off-by: offline0806 <3337230449@qq.com>
Co-authored-by: offline0806 <3337230449@qq.com>

vllm_ascend/eplb/core/eplb_device_transfer_loader.py

@@ -45,7 +45,7 @@ class D2DExpertWeightLoader:
                                           layer_id):
         # When current send/recv and weight.expert_map update tasks are not finished, cannot accept new d2d task
         if self.state != ExpertWeightUpdateState.WAITING:
-            logger.error(
+            logger.warning_once(
                 "current d2d weight update tasks are on-going, cannot accept new weight update task"
             )
             return
@@ -64,6 +64,7 @@ class D2DExpertWeightLoader:
                 layer_id][global_expert_id_to_send].item()
             for src_tensor in self.eplb_adaptor.expert_param_per_layer[
                     layer_id][local_expert_id]:
+                src_tensor = src_tensor.clone()
                 self.comm_op_list.append(
                     dist.P2POp(dist.isend, src_tensor, dst_rank))