upgrade vLLM to main (#4608)

1. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/28542
The model structure modifications we involved in are:
     - Qwen2.5-VL(still exist some patch)
     - Qwen2-VL
     - Qwen2
     - DeepSeek series
     - Qwen-moe series
2. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29121
   the output token now  type changed from np to `list[list[int]]`

3. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29262
    `xformers` backend for multimodal now has been deprecated
4. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29342

5. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/28579
6. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/28718
7. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/issues/28665
8. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/26847
vllm introduced the `optimization-level`, some default config has been
changed, and the param `--enforce-eager` has been deprecated
9. fix http://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29223 it retuns tuple
for sampler.
10. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29471 we'll remove the
related patch to avoid this kind of error.

Co-authored-by: hfadzxy <starmoon_zhang@163.com>
Co-authored-by: wangli <wangli858794774@gmail.com>


- vLLM version: v0.11.2

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Signed-off-by: wangxiyuan <wangxiyuan1007@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: wangli <wangli858794774@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: hfadzxy <starmoon_zhang@163.com>
Co-authored-by: wangli <wangli858794774@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: hfadzxy <starmoon_zhang@163.com>

tests/ut/torchair/models/test_torchair_deepseek_v2.py

@@ -20,6 +20,7 @@ import torch
 from transformers import PretrainedConfig
 from vllm.config import CacheConfig
 from vllm.distributed.parallel_state import GroupCoordinator
+from vllm.transformers_utils.config import patch_rope_parameters
 
 from vllm_ascend.torchair.models.torchair_deepseek_v2 import (
     TorchairDeepseekV2DecoderLayer, TorchairDeepseekV2ForCausalLM,
@@ -59,6 +60,7 @@ def base_config():
         topk_group=1,
         vocab_size=10000,
     )
+    patch_rope_parameters(config)
     return config