upgrade vLLM to main (#4608)

1. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/28542
The model structure modifications we involved in are:
     - Qwen2.5-VL(still exist some patch)
     - Qwen2-VL
     - Qwen2
     - DeepSeek series
     - Qwen-moe series
2. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29121
   the output token now  type changed from np to `list[list[int]]`

3. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29262
    `xformers` backend for multimodal now has been deprecated
4. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29342

5. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/28579
6. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/28718
7. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/issues/28665
8. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/26847
vllm introduced the `optimization-level`, some default config has been
changed, and the param `--enforce-eager` has been deprecated
9. fix http://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29223 it retuns tuple
for sampler.
10. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29471 we'll remove the
related patch to avoid this kind of error.

Co-authored-by: hfadzxy <starmoon_zhang@163.com>
Co-authored-by: wangli <wangli858794774@gmail.com>


- vLLM version: v0.11.2

---------

Signed-off-by: wangxiyuan <wangxiyuan1007@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: wangli <wangli858794774@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: hfadzxy <starmoon_zhang@163.com>
Co-authored-by: wangli <wangli858794774@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: hfadzxy <starmoon_zhang@163.com>

tests/ut/kv_connector/utils.py

@@ -6,7 +6,6 @@
 import os
 from typing import Any, Optional
 
-import numpy as np
 import torch
 from vllm import SamplingParams
 from vllm.config import (CacheConfig, DeviceConfig, KVTransferConfig,
@@ -189,7 +188,7 @@ def create_model_runner_output(
 
     # Make sampled tokens.
     sampled_token = EOS_TOKEN_ID if use_eos else 0
-    sampled_token_ids = [np.array([sampled_token]) for _ in req_ids]
+    sampled_token_ids = [[sampled_token] for _ in req_ids]
 
     # Make output data structure.
     extra_args = {}