upgrade vLLM to main (#4608)

1. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/28542
The model structure modifications we involved in are:
     - Qwen2.5-VL(still exist some patch)
     - Qwen2-VL
     - Qwen2
     - DeepSeek series
     - Qwen-moe series
2. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29121
   the output token now  type changed from np to `list[list[int]]`

3. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29262
    `xformers` backend for multimodal now has been deprecated
4. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29342

5. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/28579
6. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/28718
7. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/issues/28665
8. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/26847
vllm introduced the `optimization-level`, some default config has been
changed, and the param `--enforce-eager` has been deprecated
9. fix http://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29223 it retuns tuple
for sampler.
10. fix https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/29471 we'll remove the
related patch to avoid this kind of error.

Co-authored-by: hfadzxy <starmoon_zhang@163.com>
Co-authored-by: wangli <wangli858794774@gmail.com>


- vLLM version: v0.11.2

---------

Signed-off-by: wangxiyuan <wangxiyuan1007@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: wangli <wangli858794774@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: hfadzxy <starmoon_zhang@163.com>
Co-authored-by: wangli <wangli858794774@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: hfadzxy <starmoon_zhang@163.com>

.github/workflows/vllm_ascend_test_pr_light.yaml

@@ -42,7 +42,7 @@ jobs:
   lint:
     uses: ./.github/workflows/pre-commit.yml
     with:
-      vllm: v0.11.2
+      vllm: 86e178f7c4d8c3b0eaf3c8e3f810a83f63b90e24
   changes:
     runs-on: ubuntu-latest
     outputs:
@@ -84,7 +84,7 @@ jobs:
         SOC_VERSION: ascend910b1
     strategy:
       matrix:
-        vllm_version: [v0.11.2]
+        vllm_version: [86e178f7c4d8c3b0eaf3c8e3f810a83f63b90e24]
     steps:
       - name: Install packages
         run: |
@@ -142,7 +142,7 @@ jobs:
     name: e2e-light
     strategy:
       matrix:
-        vllm_version: [v0.11.2]
+        vllm_version: [86e178f7c4d8c3b0eaf3c8e3f810a83f63b90e24]
     # Note (yikun): If CI resource are limited we can split job into two chain jobs
     needs: [lint, changes]
     # only trigger e2e test after lint passed and the change is e2e related with pull request.