[Refactor] Replace npu_ring_mla with FIA in MLA prefill (#5704)

### What this PR does / why we need it?

**Refactor: Replace npu_ring_mla with FIA in MLA prefill**

This PR refactors the MLA (Multi-Layer Attention) prefill implementation
by replacing `npu_ring_mla` with `npu_fused_infer_attention_score` (FIA)
operator, unifying the attention backend with the standard attention
implementation.

**Key changes:**

1. **Core prefill refactoring (`mla_v1.py`)**
- Replace `npu_ring_mla` with `npu_fused_infer_attention_score` in
`_forward_prefill` and `_compute_prefill_context`
   - Use TND layout with `softmax_lse_flag=True` for prefill attention
- Use `npu_attention_update` to merge multiple chunk outputs with LSE
(Log-Sum-Exp)
- Change `attn_mask` from `get_final_mla_mask()` to
`get_splitfuse_attn_mask()` for FIA compatibility

2. **Data type handling**
- Add automatic float16 → bfloat16 conversion (FIA with TND layout only
supports bfloat16)
   - Convert output back to original dtype after FIA computation

3. **Metadata optimization**
   - Pre-calculate `actual_seq_lengths_q` in `AscendMLAPrefillMetadata`
- Pre-calculate `chunk_actual_seq_lengths_kv_list` in
`ChunkedContextMetadata`
- Move `torch.cumsum` operations from forward pass to metadata building
phase

4. **CP compatibility (`mla_cp.py`)**
- Add `_ring_mla_mask_builder` to get `npu_ring_mla`-compatible masks
for Context Parallel scenarios
- Add `chunk_actual_seq_lengths_kv_list` field to
`CPChunkedContextMetadata`

**Why we need it:**
- **Backend unification**: Aligns MLA prefill with standard attention
implementation (`attention_v1.py`)
- **Better chunked context support**: FIA + `npu_attention_update`
provides native LSE-based output merging
- **Future compatibility**: Prepares for eventual `npu_ring_mla` removal
across the codebase

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?

**No.** This is a pure refactoring with no functional changes - same
behavior, unified backend.

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- Related issue: #5463 (item 7)
- vLLM version: v0.14.1

Signed-off-by: lico67373 <918688502@qq.com>

vllm_ascend/attention/context_parallel/common_cp.py

@@ -53,6 +53,7 @@ class CPChunkedContextMetadata:
     workspace: torch.Tensor
     chunk_seq_lens: torch.Tensor
     chunk_seq_lens_npu: torch.Tensor
+    chunk_actual_seq_lengths_kv_list: list[list[int]]
     # for mla DCP & PCP
     padded_chunk_seq_lens_npu: torch.Tensor = None
     padded_local_chunk_seq_lens: list[list[int]] | None = None