[main][Feature]Moe alltoallv communication optimization for unquantized RL training sence (#2088)

It comes from 0.9.1dev
[0.9.1][Feature]Moe alltoallv communication optimization for unquantized
RL training sence & alltoallv support dpo (#1547)

- vLLM version: v0.10.0
- vLLM main:
97608dc276

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Signed-off-by: weijinqian_v1 <weijinqian@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: whx-sjtu <2952154980@qq.com>
Signed-off-by: curryliu <120010041@link.cuhk.edu.cn>
Signed-off-by: wangli <wangli858794774@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: ChenTaoyu-SJTU <ctynb@qq.com>
Signed-off-by: taoxudonghaha <justsheldon@163.com>
Signed-off-by: shen-shanshan <467638484@qq.com>
Signed-off-by: Shanshan Shen <87969357+shen-shanshan@users.noreply.github.com>
Signed-off-by: leo-pony <nengjunma@outlook.com>
Signed-off-by: wangxiyuan <wangxiyuan1007@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: MengqingCao <cmq0113@163.com>
Co-authored-by: weijinqian_v1 <weijinqian@huawei.com>
Co-authored-by: whx <56632993+whx-sjtu@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: curryliu <99582471+Irving11-BKN@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Li Wang <wangli858794774@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: TaoYu Chen <ctynb@qq.com>
Co-authored-by: taoxudonghaha <justsheldon@163.com>
Co-authored-by: Shanshan Shen <467638484@qq.com>
Co-authored-by: leo-pony <nengjunma@outlook.com>
Co-authored-by: wangxiyuan <wangxiyuan1007@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Mengqing Cao <cmq0113@163.com>

requirements-dev.txt

@@ -17,3 +17,4 @@ ray>=2.47.1
 protobuf>3.20.0
 librosa 
 soundfile
+pytest_mock