[Kernel] add custom op GmmSwigluQuantWeightNzTensorList (#3804)

### What this PR does / why we need it?

This PR introduces support for adding custom CANN `aclnn` ops to
`vllm-ascend`, allowing users to define and use their own custom
operators.

Key changes include:
- Building and installing custom ops into the `vllm-ascend`-specified
directory
- Binding the `aclnn` op interface to the `torch.ops._C_ascend` module
- Enabling invocation of these ops within `vllm-ascend`

This PR includes a sample custom op:
`aclnnGroupedMatmulSwigluQuantWeightNzTensorList`, which is adapted from
the CANN operator
[`aclnnGroupedMatmulSwigluQuantWeightNZ`](https://www.hiascend.com/document/detail/zh/canncommercial/83RC1/API/aolapi/context/aclnnGroupedMatmulSwigluQuantWeightNZ.md).
Its input parameters `weight` and `weight_scale` now accept
`list[torch.Tensor]` (i.e., `at::TensorList`).

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?

No.


- vLLM version: v0.11.2

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Signed-off-by: QianChenxi <chenxi.qian.cq@outlook.com>

csrc/utils/inc/aclnn_util.h

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+/**
+ * Copyright (c) 2025 Huawei Technologies Co., Ltd.
+ * This file is a part of the CANN Open Software.
+ * Licensed under CANN Open Software License Agreement Version 1.0 (the "License").
+ * Please refer to the License for details. You may not use this file except in compliance with the License.
+ * THIS SOFTWARE IS PROVIDED ON AN "AS IS" BASIS, WITHOUT WARRANTIES OF ANY KIND, EITHER EXPRESS OR IMPLIED,
+ * INCLUDING BUT NOT LIMITED TO NON-INFRINGEMENT, MERCHANTABILITY, OR FITNESS FOR A PARTICULAR PURPOSE.
+ * See LICENSE in the root of the software repository for the full text of the License.
+ */
+#ifndef OP_API_INC_ACLNN_UTIL_H
+#define OP_API_INC_ACLNN_UTIL_H
+ 
+#define ACLNN_API __attribute__((visibility("default")))
+#endif // OP_API_INC_ACLNN_UTIL_H