[Kernel] add custom op GmmSwigluQuantWeightNzTensorList (#3804)

### What this PR does / why we need it?

This PR introduces support for adding custom CANN `aclnn` ops to
`vllm-ascend`, allowing users to define and use their own custom
operators.

Key changes include:
- Building and installing custom ops into the `vllm-ascend`-specified
directory
- Binding the `aclnn` op interface to the `torch.ops._C_ascend` module
- Enabling invocation of these ops within `vllm-ascend`

This PR includes a sample custom op:
`aclnnGroupedMatmulSwigluQuantWeightNzTensorList`, which is adapted from
the CANN operator
[`aclnnGroupedMatmulSwigluQuantWeightNZ`](https://www.hiascend.com/document/detail/zh/canncommercial/83RC1/API/aolapi/context/aclnnGroupedMatmulSwigluQuantWeightNZ.md).
Its input parameters `weight` and `weight_scale` now accept
`list[torch.Tensor]` (i.e., `at::TensorList`).

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?

No.


- vLLM version: v0.11.2

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Signed-off-by: QianChenxi <chenxi.qian.cq@outlook.com>

.pre-commit-config.yaml

@@ -12,7 +12,7 @@ repos:
     - id: codespell
       args: [
         --toml, pyproject.toml,
-        '--skip', 'tests/e2e/multicard/test_torchair_graph_mode.py,csrc/mla_preprocess/**,tests/prompts/**,./benchmarks/sonnet.txt,*tests/lora/data/**,build/**,./vllm_ascend.egg-info/**,.github/**,typos.toml',
+        '--skip', 'tests/e2e/multicard/test_torchair_graph_mode.py,csrc/**,tests/prompts/**,./benchmarks/sonnet.txt,*tests/lora/data/**,build/**,./vllm_ascend.egg-info/**,.github/**,typos.toml',
         '-L', 'CANN,cann,NNAL,nnal,ASCEND,ascend,EnQue,CopyIn,ArchType,AND'
       ]
       additional_dependencies:
@@ -37,7 +37,7 @@ repos:
   - id: typos
     args: [
       "--force-exclude",
-      "--exclude", "csrc/mla_preprocess/**"
+      "--exclude", "csrc/**"
     ]
 - repo: https://github.com/PyCQA/isort
   rev: 6.0.1