[Build] Move numba/quart to requirments and update DS baseline and sync graph typo fix (#1121)

### What this PR does / why we need it?
1. The dependency was introduced by
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm-ascend/pull/874
- Move numba/quart from requirements-dev to requirments
- Align pyproject.toml with requirements

2. This patch also fix deepseek accuracy baseline which
https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm-ascend/pull/1118 was not addressed.
According to https://huggingface.co/deepseek-ai/DeepSeek-V2-Lite the
gsm8k is about `41.1`

3. This also sync the vLLM upstream changes:
eaa2e51088

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?
No

### How was this patch tested?
CI passed
vllm ascend test (basic workflow)
vllm longterm test (spec decode)

Closes: https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm-ascend/issues/1120

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Signed-off-by: Yikun Jiang <yikunkero@gmail.com>

requirements.txt

@@ -18,3 +18,6 @@ wheel
 # requirements for disaggregated prefill
 msgpack
 quart
+
+# Required for N-gram speculative decoding
+numba