[Main2Main] Upgrade vllm commit to 1230 (#5495)

### What this PR does / why we need it?

Upgrade vllm commit to 1230

Affected by https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/27614 (and the
core PR https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/26866), we have to
make the following changes:

1. Modify `tests/e2e/multicard/test_aclgraph_capture_replay.py` to keep
compatible with both vllm version of `v0.13.0` and latest main commitID,
while vllm enables async scheduling by default
2. Skip `test_guided_decoding.py` due to xgrammar errors
(https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm-ascend/issues/5524)

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?

### How was this patch tested?

- vLLM version: v0.13.0
- vLLM main:
45c1ca1ca1

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Signed-off-by: wjunLu <wjunlu217@gmail.com>

docs/source/community/versioning_policy.md

@@ -51,7 +51,7 @@ If you're using v0.7.3, don't forget to install [mindie-turbo](https://pypi.org/
 For main branch of vLLM Ascend, we usually make it compatible with the latest vLLM release and a newer commit hash of vLLM. Please note that this table is usually updated. Please check it regularly.
 | vLLM Ascend | vLLM         | Python           | Stable CANN | PyTorch/torch_npu  |
 |-------------|--------------|------------------|-------------|--------------------|
-|     main    | 45c1ca1ca1ee8fa06df263c8715e8a412ff408d4, v0.13.0 tag | >= 3.10, < 3.12   | 8.3.RC2 | 2.8.0 / 2.8.0 |
+|     main    | 7157596103666ee7ccb7008acee8bff8a8ff1731, v0.13.0 tag | >= 3.10, < 3.12   | 8.3.RC2 | 2.8.0 / 2.8.0 |
 
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