[Main2Main] Upgrade vllm commit to 1230 (#5495)

### What this PR does / why we need it?

Upgrade vllm commit to 1230

Affected by https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/27614 (and the
core PR https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/26866), we have to
make the following changes:

1. Modify `tests/e2e/multicard/test_aclgraph_capture_replay.py` to keep
compatible with both vllm version of `v0.13.0` and latest main commitID,
while vllm enables async scheduling by default
2. Skip `test_guided_decoding.py` due to xgrammar errors
(https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm-ascend/issues/5524)

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?

### How was this patch tested?

- vLLM version: v0.13.0
- vLLM main:
45c1ca1ca1

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Signed-off-by: wjunLu <wjunlu217@gmail.com>

.github/workflows/pr_test_light.yaml

@@ -42,7 +42,7 @@ jobs:
   lint:
     uses: ./.github/workflows/_pre_commit.yml
     with:
-      vllm: 45c1ca1ca1ee8fa06df263c8715e8a412ff408d4
+      vllm: 7157596103666ee7ccb7008acee8bff8a8ff1731
   changes:
     runs-on: linux-aarch64-a2-0
     outputs:
@@ -90,7 +90,7 @@ jobs:
         SOC_VERSION: ascend910b1
     strategy:
       matrix:
-        vllm_version: [45c1ca1ca1ee8fa06df263c8715e8a412ff408d4, v0.13.0]
+        vllm_version: [7157596103666ee7ccb7008acee8bff8a8ff1731, v0.13.0]
 
     steps:
       - name: Free up disk space
@@ -163,7 +163,7 @@ jobs:
     name: e2e-light
     strategy:
       matrix:
-        vllm_version: [45c1ca1ca1ee8fa06df263c8715e8a412ff408d4, v0.13.0]
+        vllm_version: [7157596103666ee7ccb7008acee8bff8a8ff1731, v0.13.0]
     # Note (yikun): If CI resource are limited we can split job into two chain jobs
     needs: [lint, changes]
     # only trigger e2e test after lint passed and the change is e2e related with pull request.