[Main2Main] Upgrade vllm commit to 1230 (#5495)

### What this PR does / why we need it?

Upgrade vllm commit to 1230

Affected by https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/27614 (and the
core PR https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/26866), we have to
make the following changes:

1. Modify `tests/e2e/multicard/test_aclgraph_capture_replay.py` to keep
compatible with both vllm version of `v0.13.0` and latest main commitID,
while vllm enables async scheduling by default
2. Skip `test_guided_decoding.py` due to xgrammar errors
(https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm-ascend/issues/5524)

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?

### How was this patch tested?

- vLLM version: v0.13.0
- vLLM main:
45c1ca1ca1

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Signed-off-by: wjunLu <wjunlu217@gmail.com>

.github/workflows/_e2e_test.yaml

@@ -110,7 +110,8 @@ jobs:
           pytest -sv --durations=0 tests/e2e/singlecard/test_completion_with_prompt_embeds.py
           pytest -sv --durations=0 tests/e2e/singlecard/test_aclgraph_accuracy.py
           pytest -sv --durations=0 tests/e2e/singlecard/test_async_scheduling.py
-          pytest -sv --durations=0 tests/e2e/singlecard/test_guided_decoding.py
+          # xgrammar has parameter mismatching bug, please follows: https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm-ascend/issues/5524
+          # pytest -sv --durations=0 tests/e2e/singlecard/test_guided_decoding.py
           # torch 2.8 doesn't work with lora, fix me
           #pytest -sv --durations=0 tests/e2e/singlecard/test_ilama_lora.py
           pytest -sv --durations=0 tests/e2e/singlecard/test_profile_execute_duration.py