Eagle3 mm support, enablement on qwen3vl (#4848)

### What this PR does / why we need it?
follow pr
[https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/20788](https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/20788)
, Eagle3 mm support, enablement on qwen3vl
target model
[Qwen/Qwen3-VL-8B-Instruct]([https://huggingface.co/Qwen/Qwen3-VL-8B-Instruct])
eagle3
[MNN/Qwen3-VL-8B-Instruct-Eagle3](https://www.modelscope.cn/models/MNN/Qwen3-VL-8B-Instruct-Eagle3)
### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?
No
### How was this patch tested?

pytest ./tests/e2e/singlecard/test_completion_with_prompt_embeds.py -vv

vLLM with eagle3 :
```bash
vllm serve /model/Qwen3-VL-8B-Instruct   --enforce-eager   --port 9100    --max-model-len 32768   --max-num-seqs 32   --tensor-parallel-size 2   --allowed-local-media-path /model/gx/images  --speculative-config '{
    "method": "eagle3",
    "model": "/model/hf/Qwen3-VL-8B-Instruct-Eagle3",
    "num_speculative_tokens": 3
  }'
```
vLLM without eagle3 :
```bash
vllm serve /model/Qwen3-VL-8B-Instruct   --enforce-eager   --port 9100    --max-model-len 32768   --max-num-seqs 32   --tensor-parallel-size 2   --allowed-local-media-path /model/gx/images 
```

bench:
```
vllm bench serve   --backend openai-chat   --base-url http://127.0.0.1:9100   --tokenizer /model/Qwen3-VL-8B-Instruct   --endpoint /v1/chat/completions   --model /model/Qwen3-VL-8B-Instruct   --dataset-name random  --num-prompts 50   --max-concurrency 5   --temperature 0   --top-p 1.0   --seed 123
```

- vLLM version: v0.12.0
- vLLM main:
ad32e3e19c

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Signed-off-by: jesse <szxfml@gmail.com>

.github/workflows/misc/model_list.json

@@ -148,6 +148,7 @@
       "moonshotai/Kimi-K2-Thinking",
       "moonshotai/Kimi-Linear-48B-A3B-Instruct",
       "neuralmagic/Qwen2.5-3B-quantized.w8a8",
+      "MNN/Qwen3-VL-8B-Instruct-Eagle3",
       "nv-community/audio-flamingo-3",
       "nv-community/audio-flamingo-3-hf",
       "nvidia/audio-flamingo-3-hf",
@@ -234,4 +235,3 @@
       "xlangai/OpenCUA-7B"
     ]
   }
-