[main2main] upgrade vllm to 0308 (#7213)

### What this PR does / why we need it?
Update main2main to vllm 0308.
breaks:

* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/30681
* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/35552 remove
self.cudagraph_batch_sizes
* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/35158 clear_metadata ->
defer_finalize
* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/36006 remove
CacheConfig.cpu_offload_gb
* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/35472
* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/34552 attn_metadata_builder
* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/30515 profile_seq_lens
* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/28053 

- vLLM version: v0.16.0
- vLLM main:
4034c3d32e

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Signed-off-by: MrZ20 <2609716663@qq.com>
Signed-off-by: menogrey <1299267905@qq.com>
Co-authored-by: MrZ20 <2609716663@qq.com>

vllm_ascend/patch/platform/__init__.py

@@ -22,6 +22,7 @@ import vllm_ascend.patch.platform.patch_kv_cache_interface  # noqa
 import vllm_ascend.patch.platform.patch_mamba_config  # noqa
 import vllm_ascend.patch.platform.patch_minimax_m2_config  # noqa
 import vllm_ascend.patch.platform.patch_sched_yield  # noqa
+import vllm_ascend.patch.platform.patch_torch_accelerator  # noqa
 
 if os.getenv("DYNAMIC_EPLB", "false").lower() in ("true", "1") or os.getenv("EXPERT_MAP_RECORD", "false") == "true":
     import vllm_ascend.patch.platform.patch_multiproc_executor  # noqa