[main2main] upgrade vllm to 0308 (#7213)

### What this PR does / why we need it?
Update main2main to vllm 0308.
breaks:

* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/30681
* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/35552 remove
self.cudagraph_batch_sizes
* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/35158 clear_metadata ->
defer_finalize
* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/36006 remove
CacheConfig.cpu_offload_gb
* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/35472
* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/34552 attn_metadata_builder
* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/30515 profile_seq_lens
* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/28053 

- vLLM version: v0.16.0
- vLLM main:
4034c3d32e

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Signed-off-by: MrZ20 <2609716663@qq.com>
Signed-off-by: menogrey <1299267905@qq.com>
Co-authored-by: MrZ20 <2609716663@qq.com>

vllm_ascend/_310p/model_runner_310p.py

@@ -152,6 +152,7 @@ class NPUModelRunner310(NPUModelRunner):
         remove_lora: bool = True,
         is_graph_capturing: bool = False,
         num_active_loras: int = 0,
+        profile_seq_lens: int | None = None,
     ):
         temporary_context = self.temporary_modify_uniform_decode_query_len() if uniform_decode else nullcontext()
         with temporary_context:
@@ -168,6 +169,7 @@ class NPUModelRunner310(NPUModelRunner):
                 remove_lora=remove_lora,
                 is_graph_capturing=is_graph_capturing,
                 num_active_loras=num_active_loras,
+                profile_seq_lens=profile_seq_lens,
             )
 
     def _check_and_update_cudagraph_mode(