[main2main] upgrade vllm to 0308 (#7213)

### What this PR does / why we need it?
Update main2main to vllm 0308.
breaks:

* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/30681
* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/35552 remove
self.cudagraph_batch_sizes
* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/35158 clear_metadata ->
defer_finalize
* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/36006 remove
CacheConfig.cpu_offload_gb
* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/35472
* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/34552 attn_metadata_builder
* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/30515 profile_seq_lens
* https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm/pull/28053 

- vLLM version: v0.16.0
- vLLM main:
4034c3d32e

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Signed-off-by: MrZ20 <2609716663@qq.com>
Signed-off-by: menogrey <1299267905@qq.com>
Co-authored-by: MrZ20 <2609716663@qq.com>

.github/workflows/dockerfiles/Dockerfile.lint

@@ -27,7 +27,7 @@ RUN apt-get update -y && \
 
 ARG VLLM_REPO=https://github.com/vllm-project/vllm.git
 # For lint purpose, actually we need make a main2main matching.
-ARG VLLM_COMMIT=4034c3d32e30d01639459edd3ab486f56993876d
+ARG VLLM_COMMIT=4497431df654e46fb1fb5e64bf8611e762ae5d87
 RUN git clone $VLLM_REPO /vllm-workspace/vllm && \
     cd /vllm-workspace/vllm && \
     git checkout $VLLM_COMMIT