llama : fix buffer checks for mamba and rwk (#10111)

* llama : fix buffer checks for mamba and rwk

* llama : fix missing worst case flag during reserve

* cuda : fix supports_op for norm

* disable sched SET_CAUSE

ggml/src/ggml.c

@@ -7272,6 +7272,7 @@ struct ggml_tensor * ggml_ssm_conv(
     const int64_t n_s     = sx->ne[2];
 
     // TODO: maybe support other strides than 1?
+    // FIXME: this is always true?
     GGML_ASSERT(sx->ne[0] == d_conv - 1 + n_t);
     GGML_ASSERT(sx->ne[1] == d_inner);
     GGML_ASSERT(n_t >= 0);