[SYCL] Optimize mul_mat for Q4_0 on Intel GPU (#12035)

* opt performance by reorder for Intel GPU

* detect hw type and save opt feature, and print opt feature

* correct name

* support optimize graph once when compute graph, record the opt status in tensor->extra, make CI passed

* add env variable GGML_SYCL_DISABLE_OPT for debug

* use syclex::architecture replace the custom hw define, update the guide for GGML_SYCL_DISABLE_OPT

* add performance data

* mv getrows functions to separeted files

* fix global variables

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Co-authored-by: arthw <14088817+arthw@users.noreply.github.com>

ggml/src/ggml-sycl/sycl_hw.cpp

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+#include "sycl_hw.hpp"
+
+
+sycl_hw_info get_device_hw_info(sycl::device *device_ptr) {
+  sycl_hw_info res;
+  int32_t id = device_ptr->get_info<sycl::ext::intel::info::device::device_id>();
+  res.device_id = id;
+
+  syclex::architecture arch = device_ptr->get_info<syclex::info::device::architecture>();
+  res.arch = arch;
+
+  return res;
+}